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Why Should You Trust the Only Constant In Life - Change?

Written by: Anna from StoryOfAwakening



Time to Read 5 min

Lately, I´ve been contemplating a lot over this one subject - change.

For me, there is but one constant in life – everything is energy. 

And energy is always in motion; thus, everything that exists constantly changes.

“No man ever steps in the same river twice, for it is not the same river, and he is not the same man.” - Heraclitus

Co-Creating Your Life by Accepting Change

Nowadays, there is a lot of talk out there about how you are the co-creators of your life and how you are capable of creating a better life for yourself and your loved ones.

All of this can manifest by focusing your thoughts, actions, and energy on constantly bettering yourself by living in the present moment. That is actually when the creation of our lives takes place from one second to another.

Life happens in the now.

Now, one thing is thinking and talking about this co-creating. Another thing entirely is practicing what you preach. 

And this is where people get stuck. This is where the ego and the overthinking sneak in, and the fear of change takes over.

The co-creation of your life cannot happen if you are unwilling to cooperate with the Universe and pay attention to its guidance. A better life can start manifesting when you stop resisting the one thing leading to it – change.

Learn to Trust Your Inner Voice and Let Go of Expectations

Most of you have learned early on that you must do as commanded.

It would be best if you lived your life according to the rules of the society created merely by the men seeking power and riches. If you do not follow these rules, you are not accepted, you are not worthy, and you are not loved.

But by doing so, you learn to trust nothing but the orders of the authority.

You never actually learn to trust yourself, your inner voice, and your heart.

Now, think about it. How many of you have learned to live your lives following the laws that actually govern everything that exists – the laws of nature and our Universe?

Almost none of you have.

Because you cannot comprehend these laws through logical thinking and cannot yet explain how they work, you have not learned how to simply trust them and create your life in cooperation with them.

That is why your ego and everyone around you step in and tell you to discard these ways of living. You start to fear your thoughts about how you could live your life in a better way. Fear wins because you think you are wrong.

Your fear of not fitting in is more significant than your dream of being truly happy.

That is why so many of you don´t listen to your inner voice.

Instead, you create many unrealistic expectations about what you should be, what you should accomplish, and how your life should turn out.

When things don´t go exactly according to your plan, most of you blame yourself for not trying hard enough or for not sticking strictly to your plan.

Or you blame others.

Either way, you unknowingly get stuck in a situation not good for you or meant for you. You create a life full of stress and sadness and get bitter for not getting everything you wanted out of life.

That is why you make yourself accept the expression: “Life is meant to be hard!”

Well, it is not! Life is meant to be easy, enjoyable, and good. Only some of the biggest lessons are meant to be painful and complicated, so you can really grow.

But if you welcome the pain as a necessary tool for a much-needed change, it will last only for a little while.

If pain and hardships are a regular part of your existence, then you are the only one resisting a better life. You are the one stubbornly trying to walk a path that you shouldn´t be walking anymore.

The truth is that beautiful, magical things can start happening when you stop overthinking and controlling everything and everyone in your life.

It is a bit funny, though, when you think about it.

You can gain control over your life only when you completely let go of the need to control your life.

You can manifest all your dreams and desires that are truly in line with your higher path in this life only when you start trusting your life and embracing the fact that everything is constantly changing. Always!

And this is something that you can never control.

And if things do not go according to your exact plan, it doesn´t mean that something is wrong—vice versa.

The Universe is always trying to push you towards the best path possible, so you can grow as your soul wants you to.

If you resist and try to stay on the path not good enough for you, the push will get stronger, the wake-up calls will get louder, and the pain will get harder to handle.

If you decide to trust the Universe, go along with the flow of change, and adjust your plans as your life unfolds, you will become a master in the arts of living in the present moment and the co-creation of your life.

Final Thoughts

Allow your life to constantly surprise you with something new, something you never expected to happen, which will change everything for the better.

Life is always happening for you, not against you!

Start embracing every change in your life as a possibility for growth and a chance to become even happier and more balanced.

Just take your eyes off this precise plan written down on a piece of paper by yourself or society, and look around you with eyes wide open. There are so many possibilities offered to you by the loving energies that look after you. You simply have to wake up and learn to use your eyes and intuition again.

Learn to use your pain and emotions as little hints about what areas of your life need change, so you can slowly start healing and growing again.

Learn how to love again and love every inch of yourself and every minute of your life because love is what you truly are. Love is what we are all made of.

There is a better life waiting for you—a life full of abundance, joy, trust, and freedom.

Please stop trying to control your future by making these rigid plans and ignoring the guidance of the Universe.

Trust yourself and the laws of nature, and learn to pay attention to every little sign in your life that is constantly trying to lead you towards a beautiful life by surprising you with one little change at a time, from one second to another.

Embrace the change and co-create the life of your dreams!

“Change is never painful, only the resistance to change is painful.” - Buddha.

To wiser days and enlightened ways,


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