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Why Do People Judge Others and How Is It Actually Related To Fear?

Written by: Anna from StoryOfAwakening



Time to Read 2 min

No man´s opinion is superior.

No man´s opinion is inferior.

Each of us has a unique path resulting from a deeply personal dialogue with the Creator.

No man is a Creator of another thus is crossing a line when trying to tell someone what is right and wrong.

If you judge and criticize someone for their experience or behavior, you are only serving your dominant ego. Judging or blaming someone only indicates that the very thing you have strong emotions about is something you deny within yourself.

Remember—what you criticize the most about others is, in reality, what you are most afraid to admit about yourself!

In my opinion, this is one of the most complex truths to face.

We have discussed this before – the people in your life are your mirrors. And it takes a lot of courage to look in the mirror and admit that maybe, just maybe, the thing that irritates you about someone is the very thing you need to heal within yourself?!

Is the other person mistreating you, or are they just mirroring your own subconscious behavior back to you?

Maybe the lesson you are facing right now is trying to pull attention to some deep behavioral patterns that stop you from growing the way your soul needs you to.

Maybe the people in your life are not pushing you away, thus being harsh and inconsiderate. Perhaps you have built thick walls around yourself, expecting only the worst from people.

It all circles back to one of the most famous truths about life – you cannot change others. You can only change yourself.

The only way out is in.

Every day try to be better than you were yesterday.

If you focus on that, you are constantly bringing in the energy of healing and growth. While doing so, you learn to value and love yourself more. When the time comes, you just let go of the people and situations that no longer serve your higher good or hurt you in some way or another. The Universe will make sure it happens. There is no room for criticism, finger-pointing, or bitter hatred here—only acceptance filled with the energy of gratitude.

Now, let me remind you something.

There has never been a Messiah in the history of humankind who has favored judging, hatred, or causing pain to others by word or action. They have all preached unconditional love, acceptance, and empathy.

Life is all about inspiring one another. It´s about helping each other grow, so we can all proudly follow our unique paths.

Life is not about lowering people and making them feel bad or guilty.

Besides, at the end of the day, the right for such a personal and profound dialogue belongs to the Creator only.

Remember - when you hurt another, you are only hurting yourself!

To wiser days and enlightened ways,


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